An au pair (plural: au
pairs) is a foreign-national domestic assistant working for, and
living as part of, a host family.
Typically, au pairs take on a share of the family's responsibility for childcare as
well as some housework,
and receive a small monetary allowance for
personal use.
The title comes from the French term au
pair, meaning "on a par" or "equal to", indicating that the
relationship is intended to be one of equals: the au pair is intended to
become a member of the family, albeit a temporary one, rather than a domestic
servant. In the best circumstances, both parties benefit from
learning about the other's culture and
will remain on good terms long after the au pair has left the family.